The Indian Premier League that wrapped up on Sunday produced an web sensation in a single day earlier this month, however what seemed like a innocent look on display screen of an overexcited fan on the bleachers resulted in abuse, threats and negativity.
The viral fan lady of Royal Challengers Bangalore (RCB) turned to her Instagram that racked up hundreds of followers inside a brief span, saying how her life has modified for the more severe after she appeared on TV in one of many IPL matches.
“Whereas I’m grateful for the love, I’m disturbed by the pointless negativity. It has been an excessive case of abuse, trauma and psychological torture. I’m confused as to how individuals discovered my identify/profile. My identification, privateness & life have been hacked immediately. Numerous the in a single day followers are males who’ve used this platform to be crude, vulgar, vicious & totally disrespectful,” she states.
“Much more surprising is the hate I’ve acquired from ladies. How fast & merciless you’ve gotten been to say imply issues to & about me with out even figuring out me. I AM ONE OF YOU! I’m appalled by how I’ve been judged & condemned as a substitute of being given a compassionate listening to. Cease & take into consideration how it’s as a woman to have been subjected to this undesirable consideration,” she provides.
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My name is Deepika Ghose & that is probably the only thing that is being said about me which is 100% TRUE. It all started on the Saturday of the RCBxSRH IPL match. I have been attending RCB matches for many years. It has become a family tradition to watch, cheer and support our Bengaluru team. When we went for the match on May 4th, I did not expect it to be different. I did not want any recognition or realise the number of times that I was on camera. I am no celebrity, just an ordinary girl who was enjoying the match. I did nothing to warrant the kind of attention that ensued after the TV images appeared & I certainly did not seek it. I have much to be proud of – I am a kind, artistic & hardworking woman. I am well educated, well-travelled and well loved by my friends and family. I have many talents and have excelled at my work as a stylist and as a dancer/teacher/entrepreneur. I do NOT consider being seen on TV at an IPL match an achievement. Many people ask me how my life has changed. It has NOT! The only thing that has changed is the number of my Instagram followers. I am as much in shock as all of you. While I am grateful for the love, I am disturbed by the unnecessary negativity. It has been an extreme case of abuse, trauma and mental torture. I am confused as to how people found my name/profile. My identity, privacy & life have been hacked in an instant. A lot of the overnight followers are men who have used this platform to be crude, vulgar, vicious & entirely disrespectful. Even more shocking is the hate I have received from women. How quick & cruel you have been to say mean things to & about me without even knowing me. I AM ONE OF YOU! The world desperately needs more women supporting & uplifting each other. I am appalled by how I have been judged & condemned instead of being given a compassionate hearing. Stop & think about how it is as a girl to have been subjected to this unwanted attention. So many people have asked me why they should follow me – and you are right to question this. Now that this has happened, I am going to turn this into something genuine, meaningful & fabulous. Yes, I am #theRCBgirl but I am SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT.